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Holding On For One More Day
When you've been holding on for 6 months now.
Good Morning!
Itâs a Friday, not normally a day I post, but here we are, together. Coffee, sunrise, and the day ahead! Even more so, the weekend ahead! Maybe you have some exciting events or maybe youâll find yourself in a creative cocoon, wherever this weekend takes you, I hope it is nothing short of magic!
Now onto a few fleeting thoughtsâŠ
~Tim
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One More Day
Sometimes, it feels like youâve been holding on for one more day for far too long. Maybe itâs been weeks, months, or even half a year of just trying to make it through. You tell yourself, âJust one more day,â but itâs starting to feel like a promise youâre not sure you can keep.
I want to remind you of something important: you are so much stronger than you know. Holding on when every part of you is tired is strength. Choosing to get up, even when it feels pointless, is courage. Taking a breath and giving yourself one more chance is resilience. You are made of this strength, courage, and resilience, and itâs carrying you through even when you feel like youâre barely making it.
I know itâs exhausting. I know itâs frustrating to feel stuck in survival mode, wondering when things will finally break in your favor. But what if this period of holding on is quietly building something beautiful within you? What if itâs creating a strength that will carry you through challenges you canât even imagine yet? What if every time you hold on for just one more day, youâre adding another layer to the person youâre becomingâsomeone resilient, brave, and unbreakable?
There will come a day when you donât have to hold on like this. Youâll step into a moment that feels like it was made for youâa perfect day at the perfect time. Youâll look back on this season and see the light you carried through the darkness, the strength that kept you standing, and the courage that didnât let you give up. And it will be worth it.
Until that day comes, itâs okay to take it moment by moment. Itâs okay to feel tired, frustrated, or even defeated sometimes. Let yourself feel it, but donât lose sight of how far youâve come. Youâve made it this far because you are stronger than the weight youâre carrying. Youâre still here, still fighting, still choosing to believe in just one more day.
So, hold on. Not because itâs easy, but because you have survived every day before this one, and youâll survive tomorrow too. One day, youâll be able to let go of the struggle. Youâll carry with you so much light, strength, and courage that the wait will seem small in comparison. You are worth every effort, every breath, and every âone more day.â
And until that day, Iâm rooting for you. Youâve got this. đȘđ


A gray morning earlier this week on the shores of the CT River in Essex. I used to spend countless hours on this dock in my 7th and 8th grade years. Catching blue crabs and selling them to restaurants. Now the time is fleeting and I find myself catching 5or 10 minutes at a time whenever Iâm in the area.

Doing It for You
When was the last time you did something new just because it made your soul feel good? Not because it would look great on your feed, or because people would praise it, but simply because you wanted to.
These days, it feels like everything we try has to come out polished, beautiful, and worthy of a double-tap. Weâre so used to thinking, âWhat if it comes out ugly? What if âtheyâ donât like it?â But hereâs the thingâtrying something new was never supposed to be about them.
Think back about 30 years ago, before everything had to be instantly shareable. People did new things because they were curious, because they wanted to learn, or because they needed it for their soul. Maybe it was a new recipe just to see if it tasted good, or a craft project just to feel the texture of the materials in their hands. Back then, it wasnât about getting it right. It was about seeing what would happen.
Have we forgotten how to do something just for the joy of it? Or because itâs messy and beautiful and ours alone? Social media has made it easy to turn every hobby, every creative spark, into something we measure by other peopleâs reactions. But what if we could just... let go of that? What if we could try new things without worrying about whether theyâre âgood enoughâ to show the world?
Not long ago (you know, a mere 20-25 years or so), I experimented with taking pictures of single water drops hitting a bowl of water. I played around with different backgrounds and angles, just to see what I could create. It wasnât for anyone else. It wasnât to impress or to post. It was just funâpure, simple, joyful experimentation. I should do more of that. Not for you, not for the likes, but for me. Because it made me happy.
Trying something new doesnât have to be profound or perfect. It doesnât have to make sense to anyone else. Do it because it makes your heart lighter or your mind clearer. Do it because you need a break from always being on display. Do it because youâre curious.
Let yourself explore, make mistakes, and create something weird or imperfect. Do it just because it feels right. Do it for you. đ§âš

Marthaâs Vineyard around 5AM on another foggy morning while others still slept. A day after a wedding I was shooting out there. That was a top 5 wedding.

You Deserve the Best
At the end of the day, I just want the best for you. I want to see you shine. I want to see you believe in yourself, grow into the person youâve always wanted to be, and let go of the fear of being seen. I want to see you try new things just because they make you feel alive. Sing louder because the song deserves it. Shine brighter because the world needs your light.
I want you to danceânot just as if no one is watching, but as if everyone is watching and you just donât care. I want you to live like youâre unafraid of how you look while living your best life. Thatâs the kind of boldness your spirit deserves.
But if youâre not there yetâif youâre still holding on, feeling like one more day is one too manyâI want you to know that youâre not alone. Iâm here, rooting for you, believing in you, and reminding you that you are worth fighting for. You donât have to have it all figured out right now. Just take it one more day, one more step at a time.
You deserve nothing but the bestâhappiness, peace, and the freedom to be yourself without apology. I believe in you, even on the days when you donât believe in yourself. Hold on. Youâve made it this far, and youâre stronger than you think.
Iâm here. Iâm with you. And I believe in your ability to make it through. You are worth every single moment of this journey. đ«


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